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Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Think On It Thursday

Intimacy in Marriage
 
In reading Ephesians 5, we are given a clear picture of God’s purpose and plan for marriage:
 
Instructions for Christian Households
 21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
 
When I go back to verse 31, and read verse 32, I’m reminded first of Christ’s incarnation, and then His atonement: He left His Father in heaven and became flesh (incarnation) in order to reunite mankind, His church, to the Father (the work of the atonement on the cross, which brought at-ONE-ment with God through the gift of the Holy Spirit).  Jesus came to earth, fully God and fully man, so that we could become “members of His body” through His sacrifice on the cross.
 
Paul the Apostle, citing Genesis, draws parallels here between the message of the Gospel and the marriage bed.  He calls it a “profound mystery,” and raises the act of sexual intimacy to a sacred rite of deep spiritual significance.  Sexual intimacy, when properly understood, is sacramental.  It is life-giving—physically, spiritually, emotionally, relationally—and it begets new life.  It is a gift from God, as holy as communion, because this is precisely what it is. 

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Resources for Song of Solomon Study

Resource List for Song of Solomon Study

Here is a list of resources that Kim Specker, our speaker the last three weeks, mentioned during our Wednesday meeting last week to help assist you in developing a deeper walk with God.

The Bible - (Daily Reading)
"Jesus Calling" by Sarah Young - (Daily Devotional)
"Who I Am in Christ" by Neil Anderson - (Reading or Devotional about identity)
"The Delay of Unanswered Prayers" by Bob Sorge - (Book about waiting on God)
"The Fire of Delayed Answers"
"The Study of the Song of Solomon" by Mike Bickle, www.ihop.org - (Free online study with video and audio downloads)
"The Bride" by Rhonda Calhoun - an allegory based on the Song of Solomon
"Classic Collection by JI Packer
"Absolute Surrender" by Andrew Murray
"The Power of Identification" by Mark Hankins - (Identity Book)

Contact Kim Specker if you have any questions at kim.specker@anthosgroup.com

Whose Day Tuesday

Whose Day Highlight: Jenn Bullock
Family Stats: Married to Shawn, son Micah
Spiritual Gifts: Not sure, teaching (especially young women)
Spiritual Pathways: Creation or Intellectual-I feel closer when I study the Word, am in conversation, or see miracles happen around me
Passions: Saving young women from the life I've lived
Pet Peeves: When people expect me to be perfect because I am Christian; saggy pants and the new teen talk
Secret Shames: My eating habits; I have struggled with eating disorders
Books that you Love: The Left Behind series, anything written by Toby Mas or Max Lucado, biographies of famous people, the Duggar's book, Kate Gosslin's books, I love almost all books.
Can't Live Without: My son and hubby! I usually have my phone by my side (I love to hear from my twin sister and her three kids). I am on the computer pretty much daily but could live without it if needed.
Favorite Room: Living room--it's the biggest room in the middle of our house; I can see the front and back doors; the TV's in there; I love our new couch and glider, Micah and I spend most of our time in there.
Favorite Tradition: As a kid we opened PJs on Christmas Eve. I've done a birthday dinner for years with my twin sister and anyone else that could make it.

Whose Day Tuesday

Whose Day Highlight: Jenn P.
Family Stats: Keegan, 3; Jeff, husband
Spiritual Gifts: Hospitality, Encouragement, Compassion
Spiritual Pathways: Relational, Contemplative, Creation
Passions: Health & fitness
Pet Peeves: When people don't do what they say they are going to do.
Books that you love: Life of Pi, The Poisonwood Bible, Prodigal Summer
Can't Live Without: Keegan & Jeff, chocolate, alone time
Favorite Room: living room
Favorite Tradition: Having big family gatherings with my big family

Monday, February 27, 2012

Memorize-It Monday

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” ~Ephesians 5:31

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Focus Friday

As you prepare your heart to journey into the death and resurrection of Jesus during this Lenten and Easter season, decide to fast from something in your life, and instead, draw near to God.

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Think On It Thursday

Thank you, Kim, for such a wonderful teaching on the Song of Solomon!

Here are the final chapters of the SOS in lieu of a devotional this week.  Also, be sure to check out Liz Sear's Lenten Tree tradition on the blog (under the Recipes/Traditions tab) as you begin the celebration of Lent.

Chapter 5

Chapter 6

Chapter 7

Chapter 8

Wisdom Wednesday

Today is the last of our three-part study of the Song of Solomon. We are focusing our teaching today on Chapters 5 through 8. We hope you have enjoyed our condensed study of this amazing book.

Bible Study: Questions for Thought and Prayer

After reading Song of Solomon – Chapter 5 – 8 invite Jesus to bring understanding to you about how these scriptures apply to your life. All of us are at different maturity levels and his answer will be unique for each one of us. We are not to compare our journey with that of others. Our journey with Jesus is unique because we are one of a kind. Remember is our journey is a process. Give yourself grace to grow in love with Jesus. Relationships take time. Jesus sees you how you are in eternity so he is very patient with you. He will not beat you up, be disappointed, or angry. He knows you better than you know yourself. He is willing and ready to lead you into greater intimacy with him. Actually he is jealous for you and he wants you to have no other lover.

Maybe you consider yourself an immature believer, one who isn’t surrendered to his Jesus invitations to come closer. Take time today to ask Jesus what he wants to show you about his love for you. It is only by Jesus’ love that we are willing to let go of the things of the world. We require more of his love to let go of the things that seem meaningful and satisfying to us. We must be willing to let go of some of our earthly comfort to experiment with saying yes to him taking us to a new territory with him. There are always tradeoffs in life. We can’t have it all. We must trade pleasures of this world for pleasures of an unseen kingdom. It takes faith in the Father that he loves you.

What would happen if you created an experiment between you and God? Ask him “what would you like me to give up for more of you Jesus?” Would you be willing to respond if he told you? What keeps you from spending time with him? Is it worth it?

If you want to grow more in your intimacy with Jesus, consider answering some of the following questions as you set aside some time to grow a relationship with Jesus. A relationship with Jesus is an intentional act of obedience. A life that leaves a legacy doesn’t just happen. It is lived with intentionality.
  • What are your motives for seeking after Jesus?
  • The Bride overcame great fear to say yes to the height Jesus was calling her to? What are you most afraid Jesus will call from you?
  • Do you live in freedom or do you live in fear? Talk about what you could do to live a life of freedom with Jesus.
  • When Jesus pulled himself away this time, it was for the deepening of intimacy with her. Have you ever experience a “dark night of the soul”? If so, what did you glean from that season?
  • What are your next steps to developing your maturity journey?
  • Jesus asks the mature bride to “let me hear your voice” – How do you think this scripture relates to you?

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Whose Day Tuesday

Whose Day Highlight: Natalee G.
Family Stats: Married to Eric, 2 daughters: Riley (10), Ellie (7)
Spiritual Gifts: Creativity, Caring, Listening
Spiritual Pathways: Creation, Contemplative
Passions: Love spending time with my girls, crafting, golfing, date nights with my husband
Pet Peeves: Rude drivers, screaming, I hate the feel of cardboard
Secret Shames: Addicted to sweets, clean freak
Books that you love: Heaven is for Real, Tuesdays with Morrie
Can't Live Without: Husband! Kids! coffee, iPhone, iPad
Favorite Room: craft room
Favorite Tradition: Love Christmas with my family in Minnesota. Games, hockey, sledding, skating

Whose Day Tuesday

Name: Tamara T.
Family Stats: Married with three kids
Spiritual Gifts: Faith, Mercy, Administration
Spiritual Pathways: Relational, Intellectual
Passions: Children and people with baggage who need to realize they are loved no matter what
Pet Peeves: bad drivers (especially if they are on their phones), karaoke
Books that you love: Redeeming Love
Can't Live Without: My kids, Jesus, motorcycle riding
Favorite Room: My bedroom
Favorite Tradition: Putting the Christmas tree up Thanksgiving weekend, taking the tree down and family time on New Year's Day, praying with kids and bedtimes

Monday, February 20, 2012

Memorize-It Monday

For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Roman 8:38-39

Friday, February 17, 2012

Focus Friday


It is in the second through fourth chapters of the Book of Song of Solomon that the Bride says no to Jesus.  She says she is afraid of heights and will not go the mountain with him.  She says “no” not out of rebellion but out of immaturity.  Jesus longs for her to come with him so he withdraws himself from her for a season while she searches for him.  She becomes lovesick for him when she realizes one day that he has withdrawn from her.  She misses who he is to her, he has become her friend.  She searches after him and invites others to help her find him.    Finally by the end of Chapter 4 she says “Yes, I will go with you.  I will overcome my fears to be with you Jesus.”

What are you afraid Jesus might ask you to do?  What could you do to make it easier to say yes when he calls for you? Pray about this today.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Think On It Thursday

To review the Song of Solomon week 2 reading, click on the links below (NIV version):

Chapter 2

Chapter 3

Chapter 4

To read ahead for week 3, click on the links below:

Chapter 5

Chapter 6 

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Wisdom Wednesday

Today is the second week of our Song of Solomon study where we are reflecting and learning more about the spiritual interpretation of this book as an example of the intimate relationship God desires with those who believe in him.

Click HERE for today's Power Point on the Song of Solomon.

Click HERE for the week 1 timeline; HERE for the week 2 timeline; and HERE for the timeline of chapters 3 and 4.

Discussion Questions for Tables
  1. Share a time that you know God called you to do something out of your comfort zone. What did it feel like if you said YES or if you said NO?
  2. What keeps you from experiencing your God given identity?
  3. What would you like to differently in your life to experience a better understanding of God’s love for you?

At-Home Bible Study

It is in the second thru fourth chapters of the Book of Song of Solomon that the Bride says no to Jesus. She says she is afraid of heights and will not go the mountain with him. She says “no” not out of rebellion but out of immaturity. Jesus longs for her to come with him so he withdraws himself from her for a season while she searches for him. She becomes lovesick for him when she realizes one day that he has withdrawn from her. She misses who he is to her, he has become her friend. She searches after him and invites others to help her find him. Finally by the end of Chapter 4 she says “Yes, I will go with you. I will overcome my fears to be with you Jesus.”

What are you afraid Jesus might ask you to do? What could you do to make it easier to say yes when he calls for you?


Personal Introspection after reading Chapter 2 – 4 of Song of Solomon:

What is a tangible demonstration to God that you would be willing to consider his request of you?

Have you ever experienced God’s loving discipline?

Describe your experience with God being a SAFE savior.

What is it like to experience God thinking of you as beautiful? “Arise my darling my beautiful one.”

What can you do to continue to reprogram your thoughts about how God thinks of you?

Whose Day Tuesday

Name: Anita M.
Family Stats: Married, 2 sons, 3 daughters, a granddaughter and grandson
Spiritual Gifts: Mercy, giving, hospitality
Spiritual Pathways: Serving
Passions: Missions, serving the less fortunate
Pet Peeves: Can't leave my bed unmade, open closet or cabinet doors
Books that you Love: Samson, The Help
Can't Live Without: God, sweets, Diet Coke
Favorite Room: bedroom
Favorite Tradition: When my children were elementary age, at the first of November they would make a decorated sealed box (we used the same box every year) with a small opening in the top. During the month we would all write on a small slip of paper different things we were thankful for and put it in the box. Then during our Thanksgiving meal we would open the box and read the notes. I still have the box with those slips of papers and I get so much joy reading them each year and laughing at some of the words that were spelled wrong, some of the sweet tender things my kids were grateful for, the things my husband and I were thankful for and the many blessings God has given us since then.

Whose Day Tuesday

Name: Ashlee B.
Family Stats: Husband Kevin; 6 ½ year old Remy; infant Bea
Spiritual Gifts: Creativity, Administrative, Relationship
Spiritual Pathway: Creation, Activist
Passions: Gardening, reading and New Kids On the Block
Pet Peeves: Misspelled words on signs
Secret Shames: I’m rarely on time
Books That You Love: Twilight!
Can’t Live Without: tweezers (and my family, of course)
Favorite Room In Your House: the new baby room, which has an origami crane mobile made by my husband
Favorite Tradition: candlelight Christmas Eve communion at my childhood church

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Memorize-It Monday

Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.   Psalm 37:4

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Think On It Thursday

Glossary for Song of Songs - Kim Specker



Allegory -   the expression by means of symbolic fictional figures and actions of truths or generalizations about human existence; also: an instance (as in a story or painting) of such expression.  Example:  Chronicles of Narnia. : A symbolic representation: emblem 
Bride – or Beloved in SOS.  Also known as the church in the book of Revelation in the Bible.  Can be known as a person who seeks after a personal relationship with God.   Also known as the female partner in marriage when reading SOS as a literal translation. (individual male or female, church )
Daughter of Jerusalem, maidens - young believers, those early in their journey or don’t the personal Jesus yet.
Lover - Known as Jesus in SOS.  Can also be known as the husband in a marriage relationship when reading SOS as a literal translation.  Could be referred to as Jesus or God synonymously with the Trinity.  Father,  Son and Holy Spirit.
Bride’s inheritance in Christ – what the Bride receives from Jesus as she grows in her relationship with Him.
Christ’s inheritance in the Bride – what Jesus receives from the Bride as she matures in Him.
Divine Kiss  -  is a metaphor for the Word of God spoken from his mouth.  Heavenly  truth.  This is NOT to be confused with physical touch of God’s lips. 
Great Commission – The command given in Matthew 28:20 to make disciples.
Intercession - prayer, petition, or entreaty in favor of another
Ministry – could be an act of service.  Not necessarily just in the church but in the marketplace, neighborhood, family, friends and volunteering.  Where talents, spiritual gifts and passions can be demonstrated.
Mature in ministry   advancing in the spiritual disciplines that lead to a deeper more personal relationship with Jesus.  Being able to let go of self-desires and preferring what God desires for us.
Paradox  tenet contrary to received opinion : a statement that is seemingly contradictory or opposed to common sense and yet is perhaps true b : a self-contradictory statement that at first seems true c : an argument that apparently derives self-contradictory conclusions by valid deduction from acceptable premises
Prophetic , Prophetically -  foretelling events : predictive
revelation – new understanding of spiritual truth or awareness of something about self that is divinely inspired
redeemed   something made good out of something broken or ugly  to free from what distresses or harms: : to free from captivity by payment of ransom b : to extricate from or help to overcome something detrimental c : to release from blame or debt : clear d : to free from the consequences of sin.  : to change for the better : reform : repairrestore
  A personal relationship with Jesus that takes a life and makes something beautiful out of it.
righteousness   acting in accord with divine or moral law : free from guilt or sin a: morally right or justifiable, a righteous decision b : arising from an outraged sense of justice or morality<righteous indignation>
Supernatural Love – love that is greater than what the fleshly body can offer to others.   It is the kind of love God has for his children.  Incomparable or rare by earthly measurement.
Supernatural abilities – abilities given to God’s children when he needs to accomplish something or it would bring God glory.  These abilities are unique to individual and circumstances.
Union of agreement  God’s acknowledgement of the bride’s obedience.
Vindication of the Bride   - The Bride (individual and/or body of the church) is publically known as one whose  sacrifice has been noticed by God and he wants others to see it.  Sometimes he demonstrates favor over his children.



Song of Songs 1

 1 Solomon’s Song of Songs.
   She[a]
 2 Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—
   for your love is more delightful than wine.
3 Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes;
   your name is like perfume poured out.
   No wonder the young women love you!
4 Take me away with you—let us hurry!
   Let the king bring me into his chambers.
   Friends
   We rejoice and delight in you[b];
   we will praise your love more than wine.
   She
   How right they are to adore you!
 5 Dark am I, yet lovely,
   daughters of Jerusalem,
dark like the tents of Kedar,
   like the tent curtains of Solomon.[c]
6 Do not stare at me because I am dark,
   because I am darkened by the sun.
My mother’s sons were angry with me
   and made me take care of the vineyards;
   my own vineyard I had to neglect.
7 Tell me, you whom I love,
   where you graze your flock
   and where you rest your sheep at midday.
Why should I be like a veiled woman
   beside the flocks of your friends?
   Friends
 8 If you do not know, most beautiful of women,
   follow the tracks of the sheep
and graze your young goats
   by the tents of the shepherds.
   He
 9 I liken you, my darling, to a mare
   among Pharaoh’s chariot horses.
10 Your cheeks are beautiful with earrings,
   your neck with strings of jewels.
11 We will make you earrings of gold,
   studded with silver.
   She
 12 While the king was at his table,
   my perfume spread its fragrance.
13 My beloved is to me a sachet of myrrh
   resting between my breasts.
14 My beloved is to me a cluster of henna blossoms
   from the vineyards of En Gedi.
   He
 15 How beautiful you are, my darling!
   Oh, how beautiful!
   Your eyes are doves.
   She
 16 How handsome you are, my beloved!
   Oh, how charming!
   And our bed is verdant.
   He
 17 The beams of our house are cedars;
   our rafters are firs.

Song of Songs 2

   She[a]
 1 I am a rose[b] of Sharon,
   a lily of the valleys.
   He
 2 Like a lily among thorns
   is my darling among the young women.
   She
 3 Like an apple[c] tree among the trees of the forest
   is my beloved among the young men.
I delight to sit in his shade,
   and his fruit is sweet to my taste.
4 Let him lead me to the banquet hall,
   and let his banner over me be love.
5 Strengthen me with raisins,
   refresh me with apples,
   for I am faint with love.
6 His left arm is under my head,
   and his right arm embraces me.
7 Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you
   by the gazelles and by the does of the field:
Do not arouse or awaken love
   until it so desires.
 8 Listen! My beloved!
   Look! Here he comes,
leaping across the mountains,
   bounding over the hills.
9 My beloved is like a gazelle or a young stag.
   Look! There he stands behind our wall,
gazing through the windows,
   peering through the lattice.
10 My beloved spoke and said to me,
   “Arise, my darling,
   my beautiful one, come with me.
11 See! The winter is past;
   the rains are over and gone.
12 Flowers appear on the earth;
   the season of singing has come,
the cooing of doves
   is heard in our land.
13 The fig tree forms its early fruit;
   the blossoming vines spread their fragrance.
Arise, come, my darling;
   my beautiful one, come with me.”
   He
 14 My dove in the clefts of the rock,
   in the hiding places on the mountainside,
show me your face,
   let me hear your voice;
for your voice is sweet,
   and your face is lovely.
15 Catch for us the foxes,
   the little foxes
that ruin the vineyards,
   our vineyards that are in bloom.
   She
 16 My beloved is mine and I am his;
   he browses among the lilies.
17 Until the day breaks
   and the shadows flee,
turn, my beloved,
   and be like a gazelle
or like a young stag
   on the rugged hills.[d]

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Wisdom Wednesday

Today we are embarking upon a three-week study of the Song of Solomon presented to us by Kim Specker. There are a couple different ways to interpret this book of the Bible. We will be doing a study of the "spiritual interpretation" of the Song of Solomon as an example of the intimate love relationship God desires with each of us.

For today's handout on the Song of Solomon from Kim Specker, click HERE.

For a Bible Study to accompany today's talk, click HERE.

Whose Day Tuesday

Name: Constance E.
Family Stats: Mark (husband), Ashley (9), Tristan (7), Tucker (4)
Spiritual Gifts: Word of Knowledge, Creative Communication, Mercy
Spiritual Pathway: Creation and Intellectual
Passions: Reading
Pet Peeves: Interrupting my favorite songs
Secret Shames: Talking without thinking
Books That You Love: Science Fiction/Fantasy
Can’t Live Without: Coffee and books
Favorite Room In Your House: Library
Favorite Tradition: St. Nick’s Day—I’m German so he leaves oranges, nuts and chocolate