A letter to myself for next December...
Hey You,
Remember how you wished you would've enjoyed the little things about the Christmas season last year? How the hustle and bustle overwhelmed the joy right out of you? No one is going to give you permission to rest. In fact, you don't need it because your Heavenly Father told you to do it. He's got this. Go rest.
Do whatever you need to do to look your loved ones in the eye over a slow cup of coffee. Let your to-do lists down and snuggle into a good book. Cancel appointments and carve out time to just hang out at home with your kids. Turn off your phone. Be present. Don't accept every cookie exchange or party invitation if it means you'll lose your peace in the process.
Don't overthink your gifts. Gifts given with a heart of generosity and love matter most. Don't overspend. It's just not worth it.
Set aside some extra money to give away this season. It's fun and you feel good doing it. God loves a cheerful giver.
So what if your Christmas decorations don't look like Anthropologie's? That nativity set from the elderly couple's garage sale is your kids' favorite. Remember how they love to move the pieces all around and since you paid $1 for it, who cares of the shepherd is now missing legs?
Pick no more than 3 traditions you want to uphold this year. Remember bigger is not always better.
These few weeks before Christmas will fly by. There's mystery and wonder in them if you stop and look. Listen to what God is saying right now. Take time to worship Him.
While the memories are fresh, write down what God has done in your life this year. Where did you see His glory? Where did you grow the most? What were your biggest disappointments? Don't wait to do this because one very short week after Christmas is the New Year (don't act surprised that it's only a week- same time every year) and you'll be ready to move on and look forward.
One last thing, in case you haven't been told in a while, you're doing a superbly, awesome job. I mean it...so proud of you. Now go grab that cup of tea and dark chocolate you've been thinking about for the past 10 minutes.
Love,
Me
Jena M.
